AOA 008: Essential Money Lessons a Financial Advisor and Father Has Taught His Kids

With Guest Tom Henske

Tom Henske is a Certified Financial Planner and Financial Advisor to many affluent clients in New York City, and he leverages his wealth of fiscal knowledge to impart quite important lessons in financial literacy to his kids. Tom shares lots of wisdom in this episode, including interesting ways to use matching to teach your children money values, a new bedtime ritual you may want to consider and cryptocurrency allowance (seriously). Oh, and for you soccer fans out there, Tom also helped the Virginia Cavaliers men’s soccer team win a national title.
 

 

 

 

 

“You will pay now, or you will pay later. But you will pay. In anything that is worth having in life, it doesn’t come easy.”

 

 -Tom Henske

 

  
 

Here are just some of the subjects we discuss:

 

  • When the money spigot can always be on, how do you teach money smarts?

     

  • Why one of your first conversations as a CFP or a financial advisor should be kids’ money smarts

     

  • Why the classroom setting isn’t the best place for money smarts to thrive

     

  • The four most important lessons for a young child to learn about money smarts

     

  • Why the transparent jar matters

     

  • Why you can’t get too basic

     

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  • How Tom set up his 7-year-old’s allowance

     

  • FamilyMint: the virtual allowance program Tom used

     

  • The “Dad is a dummy.” theme rears its head again. For more, listen to my interview with Bill Dwight.

     

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  • Survey of the States: Find out the financial literacy requirements in your state. (Hint: They’re not pretty.)

     

  • Learn a new bedtime ritual that will help your children grasp key financial concepts. 

     

  • Institute a match to incentivize kids to use their Share jar money.

     

  • Tom’s advice about how to use matching to teach children the money values you want them to learn is wonderful. If you listen to nothing else, then listen to this section (31:00).

     

  • I will donate $100 to the classroom of your choice via DonorsChoose. (Just message me on Facebook.)

     

  • The cryptocurrency allowance? Yeah, it’s a thing. And this is NOT an endorsement.

     

  • Learn a creative way to answer the question, “How much money do you make, Dad?”

     

  • The Millionaire Next Door: Read this book to learn what the typical millionaire actually looks like.

     

  • Another book recommendation: Raising Financially Fit Kids, Revised by Joline Godfrey
  • Total Cents: Tom’s kids’ blog

     

  • Lenox Advisors: Money-Smart Kids

     

I hope you enjoyed this episode of The Art of Allowance Podcast. If you did, then I think you might like my conversation with Bill Dwight, another dad of older children who offers a unique perspective.
 
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